Valentine lurvy durvy....

Hello lovely people !!!

Oh my, I have again been absence from this blog of mine for quite a long stretch of time.Did anyone of you have any thought or concern of what happen to me lately?? miss me?? lol, don't worry i'm still as self centered as i'm like used to be and have not change from my lazy habit.Speaking on lazy, my reason for not being able to update my blog is due to being so slothful due to the excessive college work being piled up on my table every night . To have me finally breaking out of this dormant side of me shows that i finally found time to blog. Two thumbs-up for the effort i had given!!!

Realigning toward my theme of this latest post which is regarding on the upcoming Valentine Day. I would want to post two question to anyone of you who is having your two eyes reading this post now:

1. Have you fallen in love with anyone yet?
2. When is the last time you declared your love to your beloved?

Basically the first question is to the group of people who are claim to be still single or commonly known as the term 'bachelor'. My motives of rousing such question is to exude realization in you guys on family planning. I know its still very early but yet you cannot run away from when to look for life partner in near future, unless you planned to be single for all eternity, and besides you also nedd to planned to be single. So, to cut short, my urge for you bachelor guys or girls out there not don't have the mentality of 'what ever will be then will be' . Have a certain rough draft on when to get married and when to build a large family.

Despite the future is unpredictable, you still should have a clear picture of what you want to do in live and what you want you future to be like.Do something today for a better tomorow! Based on a past experience I would like to shared something to you guys or girls who similarly like someone from a distance but your affection for the opposite person have yet to be known by the person. It is because similarly I had gone through this experience when you liked a person but you have no guts or confident to tell the person that your heart had fallen in love with the person perfection. We became close friends but that all our relationship can go, because I have not told the person of my dying passion and love for the person. As time goes by, circumstances happened and here I am regret for being a cowardice.So, if today any of you have someone you think both of you are meant to be together but you have been hesitation to express your feeling to that person, my advice is if the person is someone you know that can bring happiness to you ,please do it at once, tell him or her of your desire and take this valentine opportunity to celebrate your brand new relationship. However to some of you who receive rejection, there is two option you can proceed next. First important thing first,Do not fall into deep depression, learn to accept rejection!! Then only when you are back to normal,you either can keep trying to earn her trust for you or you can try to move on with you life .However what ever it is , look for a person that has these qualities:

a. Good heart with kind personality
b. understanding
c.Loyal
d. mixes well with you
e. have personalities to be a responsible parents
f. someone that you find attractive
g. Understand that

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."
-- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7

These should be a fundamental guildline on how to search for the right partner.

To the second group of people that I had roused the question on 'When is the last time you declared your love to your beloved?' , you have someone you loved and you should already know that your commitment to you other partner should be more at least 100%. Cherish the relationship you guys had formed out of sacrifice. True love requires sacrifice so there shouldn't be complains on sharing the life together. So this valentine Day, should be a day to once again declare you love to you beloved. Make it sincere and truthful, because you love her and you can't live without her. I know its old school but try writting poem like these to the person you love.

How necessary is it to remind
A loving couple that they are in love?
Perhaps a well-placed word might pierce the rind,
Penetrating hearts that dormant prove.
Years accumulate like fallen snow,
Vast fields of understanding, thick and cold,
As time surrenders even those who know,
Leaving love a story long since told.
Each year, therefore, occasion must be made,
Name-day of love, that lovers all might speak,
Taking a risk that else they might evade,
In search of pleasure even angels seek.
Need comes slowly, like a warm spring rain.
Except one sing, the song must be in vain.

I know valentine day is a lurvy durvy day, but hey, it's also a day to celebrate and appreciate you friends and parents. Basically valentine day, is a day of expressing your love to someone. You can even express your love to God, because ultimately, God express his unconditional loves first to us. So, Happy Valentine Day guys and be lovely!!

P/s: Although this is rather an unrelated topic but anyway i just want to send my best regards to Candy whom had left to Germany two days ago. Although you be missed a lot here, anyway

Best wishes to you there and have a 1 year Full of fun!!


With loves,
Dicvinn